What is LOVE?

Love is a temporary madness. 
It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. 
You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. 
Because this is what love is. 

Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion.


That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.

Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away,

and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.

Simply missing you.

i missed cooking for my husband..

Friday ~

Wedding Photographer : The Arte Fotografia.

[the wedding brochure. with us in it! :p]

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this is our official photographer for the day.

alhamdullilah berjaya mendapatkan wedding photographer dengan harga yang amat berpatutan.

pada mulanya saya agak runsing, memikirkan majlis berjalan sewaktu cuti aidilfitri.

bermakna ramai photographer yang tak available, dan jika available harga nya mahal kerana dicampur kos travel + kos peak season (musim raya).

saya memang tegas, tak mahu bazirkan wang untuk kedua-dua kos yang optional ini.

saya berusaha mencari fotografer yang tinggal di kedah.

pada waktu itu, bakal suami punya tak punyai keinginan yang sama tinggi untuk hire photographer. kata beliau jika susah-susah, gunakan saja khidmat ahli keluarga kerana ramai yang mempunyai kamera DSLR.

tapi ada juga rezeki kami, entah macam mana saya sampai ke blog Arte Fotografia. dan terjatuh hati dengan gambar night-shoot mereka. dan lebih menggembirakan mr.Azizi ni berasal dari kedah. jadi lebih mudah untuk berurusan kerana tempat tinggal berdekatan. musim raya faham-faham sajalah, saya pun tak nak fotografer terpaksa tinggalkan famili semata-mata ada job time raya.

• pricing = sangat-sangat berpatutan.! (after the quotation, dapat tu, tak sampai 1k!)
• event = akad nikah, sword barrel reception, outdoor.
• length = pagi sampai ke malam.! pengantin yang dah letih tak sabar nak habiskan sesion. hewhew..
• outcome = unlimited shoots dvd, custom-album with glass cover, 4 wedding photos with frame.

alhamdulillah... kami berjaya juga untuk dapatkan wedding yang mampu dibiayai tanpa perlu cut-off segala-gala. for me, that's the most important.

bersawang.!

hi!

hampir 4 bulan tak sentuh apa-apa dalam blog ni. kenapa ya? sejak kahwin asyik dengan menyesuaikan diri dengan kehidupan baru, banyak perkara yang ingin dikongsi tapi selalu tak jumpa masa & mood yang sesuai.

to all bride-to-be,

majlis kahwin sememangnya perlu indah untuk diingati, tapi jangan sampai membebankan.

wedding is once in a lifetime event, but marriage is for the rest of our life.

life after wedding, itu yang utama. :)

about love.

#find someone who does not love you only when you're young,

but rather stays with you until you both grow grey and old.

the downside of an army wife.

i am so frustrated. when he said he needs to work again this saturday. when he said that, i was lost. actually i wanted to shout, it just i couldn't.

i was so devastated enough, that last week when i was sick he couldn't come back. he was on duty the whole week. and i was picking every strength that i had to manage myself alone, to go to the clinic every day. i was always wanted to wish he will be around, but i know he couldn't.

i wish i can win over military system.

but here i am, just a wife who is trying to manage most of her time alone.

this time i DON'T WANT to understand military.

because you never give me a solid reason why i always to sacrifice my heart for you, military.

people always see how soldier have sacrifice themselves for the country.

but often they forget, behind those soldier.. they are some people who makes a lot of sacrifice too.. without being known, without being acknowledged.