Simply missing you.

i missed cooking for my husband..

Friday ~

Wedding Photographer : The Arte Fotografia.

[the wedding brochure. with us in it! :p]

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this is our official photographer for the day.

alhamdullilah berjaya mendapatkan wedding photographer dengan harga yang amat berpatutan.

pada mulanya saya agak runsing, memikirkan majlis berjalan sewaktu cuti aidilfitri.

bermakna ramai photographer yang tak available, dan jika available harga nya mahal kerana dicampur kos travel + kos peak season (musim raya).

saya memang tegas, tak mahu bazirkan wang untuk kedua-dua kos yang optional ini.

saya berusaha mencari fotografer yang tinggal di kedah.

pada waktu itu, bakal suami punya tak punyai keinginan yang sama tinggi untuk hire photographer. kata beliau jika susah-susah, gunakan saja khidmat ahli keluarga kerana ramai yang mempunyai kamera DSLR.

tapi ada juga rezeki kami, entah macam mana saya sampai ke blog Arte Fotografia. dan terjatuh hati dengan gambar night-shoot mereka. dan lebih menggembirakan mr.Azizi ni berasal dari kedah. jadi lebih mudah untuk berurusan kerana tempat tinggal berdekatan. musim raya faham-faham sajalah, saya pun tak nak fotografer terpaksa tinggalkan famili semata-mata ada job time raya.

• pricing = sangat-sangat berpatutan.! (after the quotation, dapat tu, tak sampai 1k!)
• event = akad nikah, sword barrel reception, outdoor.
• length = pagi sampai ke malam.! pengantin yang dah letih tak sabar nak habiskan sesion. hewhew..
• outcome = unlimited shoots dvd, custom-album with glass cover, 4 wedding photos with frame.

alhamdulillah... kami berjaya juga untuk dapatkan wedding yang mampu dibiayai tanpa perlu cut-off segala-gala. for me, that's the most important.

bersawang.!

hi!

hampir 4 bulan tak sentuh apa-apa dalam blog ni. kenapa ya? sejak kahwin asyik dengan menyesuaikan diri dengan kehidupan baru, banyak perkara yang ingin dikongsi tapi selalu tak jumpa masa & mood yang sesuai.

to all bride-to-be,

majlis kahwin sememangnya perlu indah untuk diingati, tapi jangan sampai membebankan.

wedding is once in a lifetime event, but marriage is for the rest of our life.

life after wedding, itu yang utama. :)

about love.

#find someone who does not love you only when you're young,

but rather stays with you until you both grow grey and old.

the downside of an army wife.

i am so frustrated. when he said he needs to work again this saturday. when he said that, i was lost. actually i wanted to shout, it just i couldn't.

i was so devastated enough, that last week when i was sick he couldn't come back. he was on duty the whole week. and i was picking every strength that i had to manage myself alone, to go to the clinic every day. i was always wanted to wish he will be around, but i know he couldn't.

i wish i can win over military system.

but here i am, just a wife who is trying to manage most of her time alone.

this time i DON'T WANT to understand military.

because you never give me a solid reason why i always to sacrifice my heart for you, military.

people always see how soldier have sacrifice themselves for the country.

but often they forget, behind those soldier.. they are some people who makes a lot of sacrifice too.. without being known, without being acknowledged.

Sabarlah dalam bersabar...

As salam alaik..
Rasanya macam da agak lama tak berkongsi sesuatu di sini. Ada juga kawan-kawan yg bertanyakan pelbagai soalan tapi semuanya masih on hold. Kebelakangan agak sibuk kerana dah hampir kepada penghujung semester jadi masa lapang tanpa lecture banyak diganti dengan siapkan assessment dan juga replacement class. Hee masa kawen haritu lama jugak bercuti sekarang siapla nak gantikan kelas. :p

Anyway i want to share with you about patience. Bukan senang nak bersabar. Tak kira dalam apa jua situasi yg kita hadapi. Contohnya military partner.. Kadang-kadang susah kita nak terima yang partner kita tak macam orang lain.
By 'org lain ', i mean the civilian. Kadang-kadang perkara yg kita dah plan terpaksa di cancel di saat akhir. Kalau yang nak berkawen tu, semua terpaksa urus sendiri sebab tunang kita tak ade masa untuk entertain the wedding preparation. Bagi yg da berkawen, makan hati bila tiba-tiba suami bg tahu tak dapat pulang sebab duty or ada event.
Semua perkara-perkara yg boleh menimbulkan rasa kecewa, sedih dan tertekan.
However, this is the price that we have to pay for loving a soldier. The military system will always come in between. And you know well enough who will win.
So..be patient..keep holding on.
Remember that you're not alone. :)